A Glimpse of Reality: The Challenges of Expectations on First-Born Overseas Filipino Workers

Cloie September S. Lang-Ay, Jm Pauline C. Olea, Cleo Angela M. Vergara and Japheth Rae B. Fernandez
Lorma Basic Education Schools

Abstract

This study determined the challenges of expectations faced by first-borns and described their coping mechanisms of its implications. Data were collected through a video interview of 12 first-born Overseas Filipino Workers ages 24-35 years old from La Union. This captured emotions and unfolded life experiences that explored the factors of parental expectations and stereotypes. Results showed portraying a good image to siblings, burdens of financial support, and inner dilemma of family beholdenness has allowed adherence to perceptions such as being breadwinners, overwhelmed of the adaptability processes, and posed difficulties to their current situations. However, such struggles urged established motivational trust and independence that led to role fulfillment, discovered passion, and gained life satisfaction. Peer influence with means of familial sacrifice drove their persistence in hopes of better opportunities and life growth. First-borns amidst hardships and societal perceptions stood amidst hurdles, manifesting resilience , and embodying accountability even to their future generations.

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